14 Years old and 555lbs.

Should mom of 555-pound boy be charged with neglect?

That is an article on the SparkPeople website.

The mother claims that she works too much and doesn't always have any time to give her child the right foods.  She buys fast food for him all the time for his dinner and he has reached a very dangerous weight.  Can you imagine being 14 years old and weighing 555lbs?  I certain cannot.

Ok some may say that because he is 14 years old he is old enough to feed himself but come on, when I was that age if it were up to me I'd be eating candy bars and cake and ice cream for dinner every night.  You cannot let a 14 year old make that decision on his own unless you have already taught him from birth the right foods to eat.

When I was a kid my mother fed me the right kinds of foods and I was always very very thin.  Ok so I wasn't model thin but I had a small waistline.  Mainly because I was very active on my bike and running from bully's and also during P.E. class they always had us running around.  There were times that my family went to McDonald's to eat dinner and we went to other dining restaurants for dinner too, not just fast food.  My favorite place to go was Bob's Big Boy (which I'm happy they are coming back to Bakersfield YAY).  But I wasn't given that everyday so I knew that you weren't supposed to eat that crap on a daily basis.  Not just because it's not very good for you but because back then it was expensive.  The burgers were about $2.50 or so and you know, in the 70's and 80's money was always tight so it wasn't too often that we would go there.  It was cheaper for my mom to go to the store.

Personally I think that this kid should be taken away from the mother because they gave her lots of chances to help her son get down in weight by teaching them better eating habits and the mother refused to comply so they took him.

This woman needs to get a better job where she is able to pay more attention to her son so she can walk with him and maybe get him a gym membership.  Go there with him every day to make sure he does what he is supposed to and not just sitting down listening to his iPod outside in the front of the gym.  She needs to take responsibility for HER actions in getting her kid fat.  If you don't then your child needs to be in a better home environment.

Well, that's just my opinion, 1 opinion out of probably billions.