Sunday, January 04, 2009

Real Housewives of Orange County

Ok, like I was sitting in the living room and like Chip turned on Bravo and like the Real housewives of OC was on and like Vicki was like yelling at like Jeana because she was defending Mike and I was like you go Jeana.  And Vicki was like DON'T DEFEND MIKE and I was like hey girlfriend don't be hatin....

Eh hem... sorry, something got over me, all of a sudden I was a woman.

Ok.  First of all.  This is what happened.  Vicki was married to her husband named Mike and they have a child together but Mike is an alcoholic and so Vicki leaves him with their child all the way across the country from Chicago to California leaving Mike high (pun intended) and dry (also intended lol).  They were talking about how he has no right to be in his childs life and how he hasn't paid 1 dime in child support.

I'm sure that fight was edited and it was much longer, I don't know but I'm standing up for Jeana.  She may or may not know first hand but I do.

My mother left my sisters father because he was abusive to her.  She had gotten married to him at an early age and had my sister at the age of 18 years old.  The way my mom told the story she was 16 but she was 20 when she had me and my sister is only 2 years older so I know for a fact that she was 18.  Anyway, she left him and wouldn't let him see his own daughter and he had to resort to stalking his own kid by watching her play in the school yard.  He would write her letters and put them in the mail and my sister never got 1 letter because my mom and stepdad would read them and throw them away.  My sister finally found him last year in 2008.

Me, my mom had a sexual relationship with a guy who was married to another woman then he broke it off with her because he didn't want to hurt his own wife and family so he did the right thing but she never even told him that she was pregnant.  I'm sure she thought she was doing the right thing but at the same time he deserves to know he has a kid.  His mom, my grandmother, was in my life for the first few years of my life until my mom and step father moved to Bakersfield and we never saw my grandmother again.  I have no memories of her at all.

Taking children away from their father not only hurts the father, it hurts the child so don't tell me that I don't know what I'm talking about because I know first hand.

/rant off

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